@Tarkus gave you a good solution for how to graphically switch between 3 apartments on the same network. If you want to view them outside your network, you would still use his solution for graphics but you would first need to know the ip address and port to communicate with each device you want to control (an IP camera’s RTSP stream is going to be port 554, a Roku is going to be port 8060, etc). Then you would set up port forwarding for each device in your router. So lets say you had 3 IP cameras, one in each apartment:
IP Cam #1
Destination Port: 55492
Redirect Target IP: 192.168.0.92
Redirect Target Port: 554
IP Cam #2
Destination Port: 55493
Redirect Target IP: 192.168.0.93
Redirect Target Port: 554
IP Cam #3
Destination Port: 55494
Redirect Target IP: 192.168.0.94
Redirect Target Port: 554
The destination port can be any number you want from 0 to 65536 (it’s best to use numbers 1025 and over). The redirect target ip is the lan ip of your device. The redirect target port is the port needed to access the device. Those above port forwarding rules need to be set in your router first.
Now that’s done, you can configure home remote. So if my external static IP is 111.111.111.111 then I would put “111.111.111.111:55492” to reach IP Cam #1’s port 554.